tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4872685231384325.post6128037580610132845..comments2023-09-30T04:57:06.962-05:00Comments on Love Unawakened: Flashback Friday!Jennifer Rhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16444750904376960876noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4872685231384325.post-53450816299951936072010-10-18T16:31:01.877-05:002010-10-18T16:31:01.877-05:00I definitely needed to be reminded of this. thanks...I definitely needed to be reminded of this. thanks :)beccaboohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15589060508063984152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4872685231384325.post-22114152618606002212010-10-16T16:03:42.912-05:002010-10-16T16:03:42.912-05:00Hey,
Great post, first off! :) You made a lot of...Hey, <br /><br />Great post, first off! :) You made a lot of really good points, about how the guys need to be the initiators... <br />I really really REALLY agree with how we, as girls, are training guys to be wimps, not warriors. And lazy, too. <br /><br />But I don't agree that wives have to submit in the way that I feel you're saying. A marriage is not a dictator with a bunch of people under him. The wife has just as much say as the husband, I firmly believe. <br />I just believe that the husband is the leader. Like, in a group of friends, but one is really the head honcho of the group. The other friends contribute, make some decisions, etc. but for the most part, the leader of the group does all the decision making. <br /><br />That's how I see a family. :) Not that a woman has to be under, or beneathe her husband, but that it's a partnership where the husband is in more of a leadership role. <br /><br />I really liked this post--I'm adding it to favourites to show a friend of mine. :) <br /><br />Becca DanielleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4872685231384325.post-2531757982364170932010-10-16T15:43:54.795-05:002010-10-16T15:43:54.795-05:00I learned this lesson the hard way this summer. I&...I learned this lesson the hard way this summer. I've always thought it should be this way, but when it came down to it I got ancy and decided to initiate when he didn't. Not only did the relationship not happen, but I lost the chance to get to know him as a friend too. It ALWAYS works out better to let God bring things together! Remember this post and don't make the mistake like I did!<br /><br />And I totally agree that this extends to facebook. In today's world, your actions on facebook really can say a lot about you.Tabbynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4872685231384325.post-78216427483289361732010-10-16T02:03:21.293-05:002010-10-16T02:03:21.293-05:00And I agree with Natasha about Mrs Ludy - she'...And I agree with Natasha about Mrs Ludy - she's such an inspiring author! I haven't actually read any of her books, but I have read excerpts online and go on her website quite a bit lol!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4872685231384325.post-76002108473602017032010-10-16T02:02:18.265-05:002010-10-16T02:02:18.265-05:00This is quite controversial in today's society...This is quite controversial in today's society, where everyone - regardless of gender - are expected to achieve their own goals themselves, which could explain the potential criticism...but you're so right! <br /><br />I believe this also extends to Facebook; let him add you, not the other way around! <br /><br />The message of submission to one's boyfriend (who will then, if it's God's will, become one's husband) is a hard one to swallow, but it's so true, though!<br /><br />God bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4872685231384325.post-39712004828864487892010-10-15T12:27:33.907-05:002010-10-15T12:27:33.907-05:00agreed 100%. :)agreed 100%. :)Olivia F.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16624697088426230297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4872685231384325.post-90915335633904601572010-10-15T12:15:36.211-05:002010-10-15T12:15:36.211-05:00Great post! I totally agree with you! I've act...Great post! I totally agree with you! I've actually been thinking about this lately. It totally makes sense! If we aren't letting the guys lead, then why should they even try? <br />Leslie Ludy is a neat authoress (spelling?) I highly reccomend her books!<br />Natasha<br />natashaatkerson.blogspot.comNatasha Atkersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01593504944388481931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4872685231384325.post-18867553568106681012010-10-15T12:14:55.249-05:002010-10-15T12:14:55.249-05:00Great post! I totally agree with you! I've act...Great post! I totally agree with you! I've actually been thinking about this lately. It totally makes sense! If we aren't letting the guys lead, then why should they even try? <br />Leslie Ludy is a neat authoress (spelling?) I highly reccomend her books!<br />Natasha<br />natashaatkerson.blogspot.comNatasha Atkersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01593504944388481931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4872685231384325.post-41729122031680728282010-10-15T11:39:03.983-05:002010-10-15T11:39:03.983-05:00Great post. I definitely agree - although, it can ...Great post. I definitely agree - although, it can be super hard to let the guy do the initiating. I especially loved your comment about how God will give the guy guts to ask you IF it's his will for you to be in a relationship.Kaley Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05532345445535343097noreply@blogger.com