Wednesday, December 12, 2012

I'm glad I waited!

The big question I am often asked is, "Are you glad you waited for the right guy?". Without a doubt yes! It all seemed so distant for so long, but very quickly it became reality. Everyrhing I had waited for in a man was here. Girls.... know what you want and don't give in! Have you ever heard of writing out a list of what you want in a man? Almost every youth group seems to do this. It is a good idea though. The idea is to write out what you would like in a husband. Be descriptive! This is not a flippant thing. The man you marry will be the man you spend the rest of your life with and the man that your children call daddy. What do you want this man to be like? Here are some of the things on my list!

- Love God
-Want to go into ministry
=Enjoys kids
-Tall and handsome
-Hard Worker
-Loves his family
-Is faithful
-Same theology
- good with money
-sense of humor

Girls, matt is all I could have ever wanted. This isnt just about who you will marry though. I believe this should also have to do with who you date. Dont give something that belongs to your future husband. This is hard to stick close to. I will be the first to admit i "talked" to many guys, but the thing was it never seemed to really work because i knew what i wanted. Do you know what you want in a man? Tell me! :)


Natasha Atkerson said...

Definitely on the top of the list is loving God with all his heart. After that, good conversationalist, loves kids, kind, leader.
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Anonymous said...

I went to enon when you was helping with the youth. You sound so nice on the internet but you never showed the love of Christ towards me(never said two words to me i went to you for advice but you told me to go to someone else because you were busy with singing in the band) I know I was one of the trouble makers but I have changed. I am involved in a local church and helping with the toddlers. I'm not putting this on here to be mean, I'm asking you to take the time to help us trouble makers. I had no one at enon....I was far from God and having home problems. Please take the time to help everyone not just the ones you like. ~bless you and yours~ A sister!

Jennifer R said...

Dear Anonymous,

First off, I am so sorry that i hurt you and was not there for you when you needed someone. I hate that. A trouble maker is no less of a person. I am glad you are involved in church now. Again, i am sorry. I hope you will forgive me.