Do you have a trail of guys? Maybe past boyfriends, just extremely close friends, past crushes, etc. Meaning, when you go somewhere do you often see guys that you use to have a “thing” with or that you have kissed before? I knew one girl who had dated or talked to almost every guy she knew. Not exaggerating…. Guys at church, school, old friends, all of them. She seemed to be perfectly happy with it, but I have to ask how awkward it was though. Every where she went she ran into someone who knew her in ways that only her future husband should. What about when she gets older, finds the right one, and returns to her old town or if they stay in town. She will still see those guys from the past. Do you get where I’m going with this? Does it have to be this way? I propose that it doesn’t. Our world says that it is just a part of life, but I believe God has a better plan! Now is the time to decide if you are going to have a past or not….
Also, think ahead a little… You have found the perfect guy! You love him to death and cant imagine life without him! There is one thing though… He is perfect and all, but he isn’t quite as good of kisser as one of the guys in your past. You feel terrible for even thinking that, but it’s the truth. Of course hopefully it will be a little different since you are truly in love, but still you cannot forget your past no matter how much you move on. I’m not saying all this to be negative, but I tell you this to give you a reality check. NOW is the time to honor your future husband! Innocence is beautiful!!
If you have lost your innocence, take heart! God heals… It will never be as if it didn’t happen, but He can/will restore you! Begin NOW honoring your future husband!