Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Thought for the day...

How can you be friends with guys without being more? Any ideas?

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Not sure...at all. I would appreciate tips because I am clueless in that area- I have no friendships with boys whatsoever! :)

Giann said...

I usually look on them as brothers and treat them like so. I also talk to them in group settings. I started working with guys on a regular basis when I was 14 and have just learned along the way. Also, I recommend Leslie Ludy's recent article in her online magazine entitled "Godly Guy/Girl Interaction". (setapartgirl.com)

I hope that helps Jen and Ashlyn....

Offset said...

Well, I'm a guy. It's not terribly difficult as long as you're not setting yourself up in situations that are having a great effect on what you don't want to happen. Like if you're hanging out - do so in groups, if you're talking - be honest like you would with a friend but not all exposed like you would with someone more. If something happens in the long run, great. But being friends is possible when that's actually what you want - if you want something else its going to show.

Jennifer R said...

Thanks for your input guys! I think you are all right... Just being normal and not being all over them. Just be normal... :)